Dating your crush
And don’t forget, they don’t ALWAYS have to be texts to send; a few of these these could also take the form of a fun little love note (you know, on actual It doesn’t matter whether you’re dating, married, already committed to a man, or whether he’s already broken up with you… Then you need to hear this woman’s (kinda weird, but totally awesome) story.
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The Westerner will think the Easterner isn’t interested in a relationship with him/her.
The Easterner will think the Westerner only wants to sleep with him/her and doesn’t want an actual relationship.
The relationship then proceeds as relationships between boyfriends and girlfriends do. At the point of kokuhaku is where we consider two people to begin dating.
Everything before that is considered getting to know each other in a friendly manner.
For now, you need texts to send that are fun and flirty, something that TOTALLY commands his interest and makes him unable to keep his mind off you.
Some of these are spicier and more suggestive texts than others, so choose according to where you are in your relationship.
I can best describe it as courting with initial ambiguity.
Things also move much more slowly than in the west.
Initial dating, or the lead up to dating, always begins in a group.
In the group, you focus almost solely on the one you are interested in. This allows each of you to gauge how you feel about being alone with the other.
If you can, you may break off from the group as to only talk with each other. After several outings like this, say five or six, you may ask to do something just the two of you. After spending time together outside of the group for a while, also probably five or six times, one person will confess their love for the other.