Shy dating confidence
I definitely don’t miss the days where I would break into a sweat if more than a couple of people were looking at me.
Instead, intensify your personality: If you're shy, take a book to the bar; if you're the life of the party, initiate the body shots; if you're a one-woman guy, keep holding out for that long-term relationship.
By being honest about who you are—to yourself and the world—you'll exude an inner confidence that will effortlessly draw women to you like never before.
Let THE SHY GUY You're the guy who just wants a steady girlfriend—so much so that you may drive a girl away with your tendency to smother early on, or end up missing out on fun with the guys once you've got her. Be honest with yourself about your goals for long-term monogamy; despite what your buddies may say, there's nothing wrong with wanting what you want. That means no more taking a girl to an event such as a wedding just so you don't have to go alone—even though you have no interest in pursuing anything more with her.
It's OK to be honest—telling her you're not much of a player will score you points—but she might not like long-term talk right off the bat.
Let her be the one to dictate the pace at which the relationship moves. Don't overdose on her, and don't forget about your friends—no matter how much you're into her.